Your Fun & Profitable Online Business · Episode 84
Price the Value, Not What You’d Pay
Learn to price the value you create, not what you would pay. Your personal money beliefs are not market data, and they should not set the ceiling for your business.
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A more reliable way to price
Your wallet is personal data, not market data
“I wouldn’t pay that” may sound like sensible pricing advice, but it reflects your budget, priorities, skills, urgency, and money story. It does not tell you what the right client will pay for the outcome you help create.
Your wallet from the client’s decision
Use customer conversations, sales calls, objections, and conversion patterns as evidence instead of treating your personal buying preferences as the market.
The result, not your effort
Work that feels easy to you may be valuable precisely because years of experience let you identify the right solution quickly.
Your time honestly
Know the hourly rate that makes private access to your expertise worthwhile, then consider the larger result the offer makes possible.
A friend was preparing a new offer when she said a sentence Wendy hears often: “I wouldn’t pay that for this offer.” It sounds logical. If you would not spend that amount, surely other people will not either. But you are not necessarily your ideal client.
Why “I wouldn’t pay that” is unreliable pricing advice
You are one person with your own budget, priorities, skills, and money story. Maybe you enjoy doing the work yourself. Maybe the problem is not urgent for you, or you would rather spend the money somewhere else.
Someone else may be thrilled to pay $500 because the task has been hanging over her head for six months. Solving it might save ten hours or return the mental space she desperately needs. It is the same service with a completely different value.
People happily pay for luxury handbags, meal delivery, professional organizers, and countless other things that someone else would never purchase. That does not make those products objectively overpriced. People assign value differently.
How your money beliefs can quietly set a ceiling
If spending feels scary to you, you may assume buying feels scary to everyone. If you learned that paying for convenience is wasteful, you may struggle to charge for convenience. If you minimize your own results, you may expect clients to minimize them too.
Then the business has to make up the difference. You may take more clients, add unnecessary bonuses, or accept work outside the scope because the offer still does not feel valuable enough. Delivery becomes heavier, profit gets thinner, and the business built to create freedom becomes exhausting.
Three ways to price the value you create
1. Separate your wallet from your client’s decision
When you think, “I wouldn’t pay that,” get curious. You may realize you would not buy your service because you already know how to do it. Of course you do. You are the expert.
You might also discover that the resistance is connected to your own beliefs about money. That thought is worth noticing, but it is personal data. Market data comes from customer conversations, sales calls, objections, conversion patterns, and what people actually do after hearing the price.
Useful for understanding your beliefs, but not proof of what clients value or will buy.
What qualified clients ask, object to, understand, purchase, and do after hearing the price.
2. Price the result, not how easy the work feels
Underpricing often begins when your skills become so natural that you stop seeing them as valuable. You may understand a messy process in ten minutes or immediately hear the missing piece in a client’s problem.
Your client isn’t paying you to struggle. She’s paying for the experience that allows you to see clearly.
Credentials can also become a convenient reason to keep prices low. Training matters in many fields, but the missing certificate is often not the true obstacle. The obstacle is confidence in naming the value of your hands-on experience, the mistakes you help prevent, and the complicated work you make manageable.
3. Use an honest hourly anchor rate
An hourly anchor gives you a reference point for the value of your time and expertise, even when you do not sell individual hours. It should be a rate you would genuinely accept for private one-to-one access to you.
An anchor is a reference point, not the whole price
Four hours at a $250 anchor may suggest $1,000. But if those hours solve a problem costing a client thousands of dollars, months of frustration, and ten hours every week, the simple calculation can still underprice the offer.
Your time matters, but it is not the only source of value. The mistakes you help a client avoid matter. The time and mental energy you return matter. The confidence to make the next decision without further help matters.
Test your price in real conversations
Do not wait until you feel completely fearless about naming the number. Confidence often arrives after evidence, not before it.
Use the price in real conversations. Notice whether people say yes, what they say when they hesitate, whether they understand the result, and whether the obstacle is clarity, fit, timing, or affordability. One no does not prove the price is too high, just as one enthusiastic yes does not mean you should double it tomorrow.
Look for patterns. Your discomfort and the market’s response are both useful, but they should not receive an equal vote.
Your pricing check
- Choose an honest hourly anchor rate for private access to you.
- Estimate the complete time and resources required to deliver the offer well.
- Name the result, time, energy, mistakes, or frustration the client can avoid.
- Test the price in real customer conversations.
- Adjust from patterns in the evidence, not one reaction or your own wallet.
Questions about pricing the value of your offer
Why shouldn’t I base my price on what I would personally pay?
Your purchasing decision reflects your own budget, priorities, urgency, skills, and money beliefs. Your ideal client may experience the problem and the value of solving it very differently.
What is an hourly anchor rate?
It is a reference rate you would genuinely accept for one hour of private access to your time and expertise. It helps confirm that an offer supports the business, but it is not automatically the final offer price.
Should I charge less when the work feels easy to me?
No. Work often feels easy because you have developed expertise. Clients benefit from your ability to see the solution clearly and complete the work efficiently.
How can I tell whether a price is too high?
Test it with qualified potential clients and look for patterns across conversations, objections, and conversions. A single no is not enough evidence to define the market.
What should value-based pricing consider beyond time?
Consider the result you create, mistakes you prevent, time and mental energy you return, complexity you remove, and the confidence a client gains to move forward.
Find the hourly anchor that supports your business
Use Wendy’s free one-to-one pricing calculator to find a practical starting point for valuing your time and expertise.
Get the free pricing calculator
It is so easy, you may not even notice you are doing math.
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Episode 84 transcript: Price the Value, Not What You’d Pay
Why your own wallet is not the market
Hey there, and welcome to episode 84 of Your Fun and Profitable Online Business. This is the podcast that helps you build a business that feels as good as it looks. I’m Wendy Muzzy, and I help women entrepreneurs design fun and profitable businesses by making confident decisions about their work, their money, and the value they create.
Not long ago, I was talking with a friend who was getting a new offer off the ground, and we started talking about pricing. She said a sentence that I hear so many times: “I wouldn’t pay that for this offer.”
This sounds like a perfectly logical reason to keep a price low. If you wouldn’t pay that much, surely other people won’t either, right? Let me be clear here. The answer is no.
You are one person with your own budget, your own priorities, and your own money story. And you’re almost certainly not your ideal client, at least where you are today. What you would pay tells me very little about what an actual client would pay for the transformation you’re offering.
I started my business doing money mindset work, so I’ve coached people through this belief for years. But it still slips into pricing conversations that look like responsible business advice. Today we’re going to talk about why “I wouldn’t pay that myself” is such an unreliable pricing strategy.
The same service can have a completely different value
Let’s say you’re considering charging $500 for a service, and you look at that number and immediately think, “I would never spend that much money on this.” I want you to get curious about what that thought actually tells you.
Maybe you enjoy doing the work yourself. Maybe this problem just isn’t that urgent for you. Maybe you have more time than money right now. Or maybe you’d rather spend that $500 on a weekend getaway or something else you value more.
But someone else may be thrilled to pay $500 because the task has been hanging over her head for six months. Maybe solving it will save ten hours or simply give her back the mental space she desperately needs. It’s the same service with a completely different value.
Think about all the things people happily buy that you would never spend money on: luxury handbags, meal delivery services, or professional organizers. That doesn’t make those things objectively overpriced. People assign value differently, and your personal willingness to buy is not proof of market demand.
How your money beliefs influence pricing
When you treat your personal willingness to buy as proof, your own relationship with money quietly sets the ceiling for your business. If spending money feels scary to you, you may assume buying feels scary to everyone. If you were taught that being frugal is responsible and paying for convenience is wasteful, you may struggle to charge for convenience.
If you minimize your own results, you may assume clients will minimize them too. Then the business has to make up the difference somewhere. You end up needing more clients, adding bonuses because the offer doesn’t feel valuable enough, or saying yes to work outside the scope even though the price is already very reasonable.
This makes your offer feel heavier. Delivery gets messier, profit gets thinner, and eventually you wonder why the business you built to create freedom feels exhausting to run.
Separate your wallet from your client’s decision
The next time you hear yourself saying, “I wouldn’t pay that,” don’t argue with the thought or try to shove it out of the way. Get curious. Ask yourself why you wouldn’t pay it.
You may discover you wouldn’t buy your service because you already know how to do it. Of course you do. You’re the expert. Or you might discover that your resistance is connected to your own money beliefs.
That doesn’t make you bad at business. It simply means this thought is personal data, not market data. Real market signals come from customer conversations, sales calls, objections, conversion patterns, and what people do after hearing your price.
Price the result, not how easy the work feels
Underpricing often happens when your skills become so natural that you stop seeing them as valuable. You can look at a messy process and know what needs to change in ten minutes. You can hear a client’s problem and notice the missing piece immediately.
Because it feels easy to you, don’t assume you should charge less for it. Your client isn’t paying you to struggle. She’s paying for the years of experience that allow you to see clearly and move through the work efficiently.
Credentials can become a convenient explanation for low pricing. You tell yourself that once you have the certificate, degree, or official title, then you can charge more.
Credentials may matter in some fields, and training can strengthen your work. But in many of our businesses, the missing certificate is not the real obstacle. The obstacle is confidence in naming the value of your hands-on experience. Your experience may help someone prevent mistakes or make a complicated process more manageable. Those are real outcomes.
Use an honest hourly anchor
In that conversation with my friend, I shared my own hourly anchor rate. This is useful even if you don’t usually sell one-off hours. It gives you a reference point for the value of your time and expertise.
It should be a rate you would genuinely accept for private one-to-one access to you. But your anchor rate is not necessarily the price of your offer. You don’t just multiply it by four and assume that’s the offer. It is a reference point that tells you what an hour of your time needs to be worth for your business to work.
From there, consider the total time required and the result you help create. You can do the math correctly and still underprice your offer. Suppose your anchor rate is $250 an hour and the offer requires four hours. You might decide it should cost $1,000.
But what if those four hours help a client solve a problem that has cost her thousands of dollars, months of frustration, and ten hours every single week? Your time matters, but your time is not the only source of value.
The mistakes you help someone avoid matter. The time and mental energy you give back matter. The confidence to make the next decision more easily without needing more help matters. Use your anchor rate to make sure the offer supports your business. Then look beyond the math and ask what the work makes possible for your client.
Test the price and look for patterns
Once you have that price, test it. Don’t wait until you feel completely fearless about saying the number because confidence often shows up after evidence, not before it.
Use that price in real conversations and notice what happens. Do people say yes? When they hesitate, what do they actually say? Are they confused about what they’re getting? Do they understand the result but genuinely can’t afford it? Or are you hearing one no and immediately making up a story?
Those are completely different pieces of information. One person declining doesn’t prove you’re charging too much, just as one enthusiastic yes doesn’t prove you should double your prices tomorrow.
Look for patterns. Listen to the words people use and pay attention to what happens after they hear the price. That is market data. Your immediate discomfort with the number is personal data. Both are worth noticing, but they should not get an equal vote in your pricing decision.
The goal is to choose a price that supports your business, reflects the value of the work, and allows you to deliver without resentment, exhaustion, or constantly expanding the scope to prove that it’s worth it.
This gives you space to say your price without apologizing, explaining every minute of work, immediately offering a discount, or tossing in more. You know how you arrived at the number, what it takes to deliver well, and that the value does not depend on whether you would personally buy it.
Find your hourly anchor rate
Here’s your action step for this week. If you don’t know your hourly anchor rate, grab my free one-to-one pricing calculator. It will help you figure it out, and it’s so easy you won’t even realize you’re doing math. You can find it at wendymuzzy.com/calculator or in the show notes at wendymuzzy.com/84.
The next time you catch yourself thinking, “I wouldn’t pay that,” remember: you’re not your client. Your price doesn’t need to reflect what you would buy. It needs to support the business you’re building and reflect the value you help your clients create.
All right, that’s it for today. Until next time, happy building your fun and profitable business.